Life Improvement Tips For The Wise Few

Being thin really made my dating life hard, because I was constantly putting myself down and always believing that your I was not good enough. If you feel this is, let me tell you I have been there and done just that, but it doesn’t have to be that way, there is a way to stop putting yourself down and letting you size stop you from catching that dream girl of your life.

I am no dating guru, but I always had a hard time with the chicks, until I learned that girls don’t really know what they want. They just like to be challenged, and once you understand how to trigger that spark of interest, you can make any girl look interested in you.

Understanding how to communicate with women

When I was about fourteen/fifteen, I didn’t catch or understand how to communicate with girls to make them interested in me. I would sit for hours thinking up lines, and studying songs to find words to say to girls. Man, I had no clue I was doing it all wrong. It wasn’t until I understood what to say and how to act around women that made my life easy. To fully understand how to communicate with women I started watching my brothers and other friends of mine and that was what finally gave me the courage to do the same.

I used to spend hours just admiring and never even taking the first step to tell her something, and when I finally did say something, I would just say the wrong thing.

If your in my shoes, I fully understand, but it doesn’t have to be that way, because what we thin guys usually do, is apply a dose of mind sabotage, by telling ourselves that she won’t be interested in such a thin guy before we even approach that girl. We always feel that no such beauty will be interested in such a wimpy body structure.

But, once you understand that it’s not about approach or what you say, it’s more about being yourself, and fully understanding how to start simple conversations with any girl. You have to learn how to communicate more effectively by picking words out of her own sentences and constantly teasing her about anything that she says.

Stop trying to be Mr. perfect

Have you ever been in the situation, where you would naturally stand there trying to figure out what to say to a girl that you were admiring, and when you finally figure out what to tell her all you said was one line. Yes, I know how ridiculous that sounds, but that has happened many time to me, because I was always trying to find the right words to say.

Once, I stopped worrying about my size and just approaching each and every “beautiful girl” I saw, just saying something funny that made them smile. I would notice how easy our conversation went after that. I didn’t even have to ask for any numbers, they were telling me to make sure leave my number with them.

But, I must admit, you do have to first understand what to say, and when to say it. And I must admit, that I got some great ideas from double your dating. A simple e-book, that really showed me how to really approach more women on a much easier scale.

Nice guys finishes last

If you read the above phrase correctly, then I know it made you think. If your a skinny guy then I know you’ve been played by many beautiful girls that got you to do things for them you never ever wanted. Please don’t take the above statement lightly, nice guys do finish last. Stop, trying to please women, try to be the one who always says no and play hard to get. Stop giving into what women wants.

We skinny guys are always trying to be nice, it wasn’t until I honestly started playing hard to get, and honestly being cocky where women is concerned, that I started dating some really good looking girls. That all started when I was about 17 years, at 19 years I was unstoppable.

Girls would have boyfriends and would just invite me to parties, because they always had fun with me, I wasn’t “boring”. Yes, you have to be exciting else it will be hard to keep a girl attention.

How A Skinny Guy Got More Dates Than The Bodybuilder

I was a very thin guy, but I had lots of smooth talking skills at a very young age. I realized that women didn’t care how thin I was, once they could laugh and have a good time with me.

My friends used to ask me constantly what I said to them that would make them so interested in me.

Well, let me give you the story of two bodybuilding guys that I took away their girl from. Guys with too much muscles don’t spend enough time training their brain. I saw this cute girl once standing in a mall and she was with this bodybuilder guy. Huge guy, big like a fridge, more muscles than I have ever seen. I walked over to her when he went into a store and asked her how does that rocky mass of a guy fit into her lean and trim schedule, I believe we fit and trim people should stick together (Trim I called myself, I was nothing but bones).

She laughed, and I told her we need to discuss this another time. That was the ice breaker, I just needed to meet her again, the next time I saw it was easy conversations from there. We started meeting more often and the rest was history. I left the bodybuilder heart-broken.

Does size really matter

I will give you one line, that works miracle on all women, whenever I would see any lady that I was interested in, I would walk up to them and introduce myself and say; ” Hi, I just hate it when women is looking at me and just won’t come over to introduce themselves.” They would always laugh, and say who. Then I would introduce myself.

Form that moment on, I would keep finding stuff to tease her about, her lipstick, her bag, the funny clothing she wears, even if she looked good. I would just not acknowledge her beauty, I would keep listening to any words she says, and turn them into sexual innuendos that she was making towards me. I would ask her to stop looking at me like she want to take me home. Size doesn’t matter, just being funny works all the time for me.

Just when she is all in the mood and bursting with laughter I would say I have to go. Always leave when your ahead, that way you will get her number very easy. Make sure she is really into you first.

The best way to learn how to do this, is by practicing, and using mind power to show how confident you are, women love men who don’t come across as needy. Stop showing them how much you want them and you will find the dream girl of your life.

Improve your dress code a little

The first thing you will have to do is improve your dress code. You will have to learn how to dress and combine your colors so that you look good.

One sign to spot a unorganized skinny guy by, is to look at his belt. They always buy big belts, that look like they have their pants tied together. Buy a smaller belt, and make sure it fits, with just two or three extra wholes left over. If your still unsure about dressing, strike up a conversation with a woman you know about improving your dress code and ask her if she would like to help you improve your dress style. Go shopping with her.

I will cover how to improve your dress code in another topic, but, you can start off with that little tip. It will give you a jump start.

For now, go out there and start approaching a couple girls, do it on a daily basis, stop trying to impress them, just play hard to get and be cocky, tease them about anything and everything you can think of.